Monday, May 11, 2009

gloomy

am gloomy.

How does it feel when a very good friend of you told you that you should stop calling him the name you used to call him, some kind of love-nick name, special from you to him. Yes, he never mind before.

The reason he asked you to stop calling him with that name, is becos he got a gf already.

I don't know how you measure our friendship but that hurts so bad, I don't know why but it does.

And it's not like 'sayang', 'cinta', 'baby' or even 'beb', whatever. It's just a simple call, it doesn't contain any flirt call at all. 

We're cool this way. I decided to respect his decision, and will stop calling him in that name anymore. In fact I will call his name in awkward way, as he wished. That's what friends are for, eh?

I really hope he's happier this way... and i wish the best for him, as always.

And by the way, the fact that 'people come and (still) go even after they said they're staying', sucks.

am sad. really-really sad. :'-(

5 comments:

  1. ouchh... *hugshugshugs* cheer up dear..

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  2. seperti kometar gue yang biasa... semua masalah sudut pandang yang berbeda aja. kalo yang A kekeuh sama sudut pandangnya, mungkin B bisa coba melihat pake sudut pandang si A juga, cari mana yang lebih baik. mengalah ga selalu kalah wen.

    cep cep... semua pasti ada tujuan baiknya, iya kan Om? *nengok atas*

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  3. maria> *hugsback* sankyuu sayangkuh mwah

    met> oke, good point, tapiii yang gue bingung adalaaah, perlu ngga sih merubah 'status persahabatan' dari good friend to common friend *gue ngeliatnya sih ky gt yaa* - like, actually making boundaries between me and him, only becos he got NEW GF? sorry but i don't buy that kind of "friendship". grraw! btw, ada apa diatas? awan? siapa itu om?

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  4. huhuhu..

    ga enak yaa..
    gw paling SEBEL..
    tp di laen pihak, harus mengalah DEMI ga kehilanganna..

    anw,Un.
    gw mw ganti url blog gw.
    nanti eike msg ya!

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